For those of you who don’t know, I am single. No husband, no boyfriend, nada. And I write a wedding blog. Oh the irony. I’ve been thinking about my singleness a lot lately, so I thought I’d share my heart a little bit with you guys. I always love when other people share themselves with me, so I figured it only made sense to do the same.
For those of you who don’t know, I am a Christian. I don’t share about that a lot, because I want this to be a space where everyone feels welcome and inspired, and most of the time, sharing my faith doesn’t really tie in with the discussion of weddings and music. (Although I love people like Melina from Wedding Pickle who somehow seamlessly blend their faith into the topic of weddings – someday I may find a way to do this.) But yes, I love Jesus with all my heart and soul, and desire nothing more than to follow Him all my days.
So… that being said, I’m waiting. I believe that there is one man who is made for me, and I for him, and I’m not going to settle for anything less. Some of you may think this is a bizarre way to look at life, but lucky for you, you’re not the one waiting, so you don’t really need to worry about it do you? I kid, I kid. Snarkiness aside… I don’t believe that I have to go searching my man, I believe that in God’s timing we will find one another. (Actually I’m hoping we already have. Hint, hint.) All of that is comforting, and I am content with where I’m at, but it doesn’t make singleness any less hard.
So, I’m not going to go on and on about it, because… well, there’s not that much more to say on the subject. And I don’t want to seem whiny. Which I fear I will become if I drone on about being single. But, what I do want to do, is create a little outlet for myself via this blog (about weddings, feel free to have another little chuckle at that.) I will occasionally be writing posts titled “Dear Mr. Someday” with little notes, thoughts, wishes, hopes, images, what-have-you that make me feel excited about the future, rather than disappointed about the present. I think it’s going to be fun, actually, and it will be cute to look back on once he’s in my life. And, all the rest of the days, I’ll continue to post wedding inspiration for all you lucky lovers out there.
Dear Mr. Someday,
I can’t wait ’til you’re mine.